**Hypocrisy In The Christian Community**

Now since this election started there has been much mud slinging & ditch digging from one party to the next & I can't honestly say who's done the most {I can I just won't}. We have to face facts that somewhere down the line we failed ourselves because it was the lack of knowledge or not caring enough to vote that actually put the people in place that allowed them to even be considered. 

Now with that being said I've seen many Christian's endorse a man that has done & said some of the foulest things ever spoken by a presidential candidate, they've made excuses for all the wrong he's done. I truly understand the art of forgiveness but I also understand the art of holding a person accountable for their bad actions & instead of reprimand they gave excuses & praise. And people wonder why so many have issues with "the church" & religion, well this is one of the reasons. You have some that have been judge, jury & executioner for Hillary stating things in her past but have been quick to forgive Trump for the things in his past & some even present. The last time I checked it's not up to us to judge anyone but it seems many have forgotten about that. How can you hold one person accountable for their wrong doings but not the other, where is God in that? Now I'm sure most of you Christian's are voting for him because you all are republicans & therefore share the same values as you but that is not true, as a matter of fact if you all are honest with yourselves y'all truly don't know where he stands on any real issues. You say Hillary is a killer because she supports "abortions", really does that make her a killer or a person who feels the government shouldn't have a say so over a lady's body, where as Trump wants Roe v Wade overturned. Many of you have been quick to say that she stood behind her cheating husband when clearly the marriage vows say for better or worse. Yet y'all uphold a man that has been married 3 times & cheated on all his wives {facts}. You all condemn her & call her a racist yet so is Donald & he's let that be known many many times, plus this man has shown little to no respect for females of all racist. You all have called her a liar but once again Donald has had to moonwalk himself out of several dumb idiotic lies he's told. 

Bottom line is this: STOP using God to justify why you're voting for this loud, foul mouth, woman hating, non-christian, lying hypocrite. STOP using the word "moral" where it involves him because he has shown none!! 

Say Ouch or Amen!!!!

It seems to me that hypocrites gravitate towards each other .....

Conversations With Chelle 

Chelle B.

Titles & Relationships

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW HOW IMPORTANT IS A TITLE TO YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP. Do you feel the need to identify your mate as your girlfriend and or boyfriend?

 
 
 

 I have encountered the problem myself a time or two but it seems as though I was on the other end, I didn't and still don't see a reason for having to let everyone know your relationships status. At one point I can say I wanted to put it out there but he was against for whatever reason so I agreed to it, even though I changed my status on FB for a long time it didn't say with who it just said I was in a relationship. Then when he felt he was comfortable with everything or better yet when he saw guys popping up on my page left and right he wanted to change it so it said we were in a relationship with each other. To be honest I didn't have a problem with it and it only bothered me because he was doing it for all the wrong reasons. He was doing it because he felt it would keep guys from commenting on my pictures and or in-boxing me in Facebook, needless to say he was very wrong and after the change I got more messages in my message box and like more than ever.
See to me having a "title" in a relationship is all about status and claiming, but not just any status it makes you feel as though you have an "official" status one that is meant to bring equalization to your relationship that maybe you feel the last one didn't have. As if you're trying to surpass the previous status of you all's last relationship who you feel may have held a bigger and more prominent title than you are currently holding. You feel it's a status that needs to be acknowledge by your mate, friends and or outsiders to make your relationship look official. 
See often times I tend to ask "Why Do People Need Titles" and I have came up with many reasons. Some people need validation, some people are insecure and feel better if others know their mate is with them. Some people think it tells them where they fit it and or stand with the other person, as if it may tell others what to think or expect from their relationship. They feel it will give the a sense of ownership and that in obtaining that title they have the right to have certain expectations and will know what their responsibilities in the relationship are.
People need to understand that if you're in a good and healthy relationships that you both understand then you all don't need to be fussing over spoken or unspoken status. I feel that you shouldn't need to validate your relationship just for others to feel good or know your business. Now I'm going to be honest I feel the only relationship that should hold a title and be acknowledge is "MARRIAGE". I mean if you're "boyfriend" "girlfriend" then fine no problems with that just know that putting your status out there and it not saying "married" then people still see the others are fair game, but it's up to your mate to check that person and tell you about it.
Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong if you want to put out there that you're in a relationship, just know when doing so it attracts more people to you then not saying you're in a relationship. See you need to understand that "NO BODY WANTS SOMEBODY THAT NO ONE ELSE WANTS", and with making your relationship public it will draw more people to you and or your mate. Trust me I've seen it happen to many times. People want what they think others have, plain and simple.

I can honestly say that I believe this!!

SO I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU ALL: DO YOU FEEL THAT TITLES HELP OR HURT RELATIONSHIPS?



                                 




CHELLE B.