Often times as we go through life we have more than our fair share of failed relationships and when those relationships end we try to figure out what we did wrong. It has always amazed me at how we tend to place the blame on ourselves at first and never taking the time to really look back into the relationship. I'm sure if most of us did that we would finally realized that it wasn't us all the time, we will realize that at some point the attraction left but that person was not strong enough to tell us. At that point we have to face facts and realize that it's their lost and not ours we have to realized that they failed and not us.
Often times we have to tell ourselves certain things and realize that although we find ourselves still loving and caring for that person, still missing, wanting and longing for that person to be near we have to know they are not deserving of any of those things. They have to know they are no longer deserving of your heart, your love, your time or your thoughts, all because they failed to look on the inside of you to see that you've grown matured and you're becoming a mighty person of God. They failed to appreciate your worth as the person you're becoming, they failed to recognize the greatness inside of you because they chose to look at your situation instead of looking at where you are going. They failed to realize that you could be the very one to help them get to where they need to be, they failed to hear your cries and listen to your heart telling them all the things. They failed to hold tight to the blessings that was put right in front of them, so they let go not knowing or maybe even caring of the hurt you may feel. They may not see or feel it now but trust me eventually they will, they may say oh I'm better off and put up a front for friends and others but when they are by themselves they feel the emptiness of you not being there. They failed to see that all the things they prayed for in a mate were in you but they looked past all that and still focused on your current situation. They failed to understand you would stand by them no matter what problems arose, and they were placed there in your life to help not hinder you. They may think on things that you use to do but they must understand that people grow and mature they move past those things in their past and they should try doing that also. They never notice or see that you had your love on hold for them but they will notice when you press play and say you're through. You're through with waiting, wanting, wishing for them because you know it's a person out there to cherish you just as you are. They failed to see or recognize that no one is perfect not even themselves, even though they may disagree.
You see they have to understand that not all good things have to come to an end but the situation with them was not for you or too you therefore you did what you had to do. No matter what they may think or try to say all you have to do is just let them know simply:
"THEIR LOST, THEY FAILED"
CHELLE B.
