Do It Out Of Love Or Not At All....Don't Cut Off A Helping Hand
If you’re going to do something or offer help to someone you should just do it without making demands or expecting anything in return, that even includes a simple “Thank You”, you shouldn’t expect someone to jump through hoops just to receive your help if your offer to help is coming from a good place. If you’re going to offer help then it should be between the two of you unless they choose to tell someone of the “blessing” they received from you. When helping someone it should be done from the heart & not from expectancy, you should never throw back up in someone's face what you’ve done for them because in doing so it shows that you may have had an ulterior motive to begin with, which is why you offered it in the first place. Ask yourself how would you feel if the roles were reversed and they did it to you.
Now if someone has ever helped you, if they have ever stepped up when everyone else stepped back & out of the blue you get angry with them because things didn’t go your way or you just decide to cut them off and or end the friendship for whatever reason you should at least extend them the common courtesy as to why. You should not leave them in the dark & have them guessing, I mean surely given all they may have done for you over they years they deserve at least that much from you.
Bottom Line Is This: Just because you feel you’re in a better place at the moment you never know what each day holds so you may want to be careful of the bridges you burn, once burnt there is no rebuilding. You have to be mindful of the people you help, because no matter how much you may want too it’s not meant for you to help everyone.
Because With Me It's Not Going To Happen!!
As The Saying Goes
The Bridge You Burn Today Could Very
Well Be The One You Need To Cross
Tomorrow....
CHELLE B.
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