Cutting People Out

Life is to short to spend with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you have to start compromising yourself and what you belief in order for others to be happy then it's time for you to make some major cuts in your life and those you have in it.  Cutting people out your life is not always because you hate them it's because you have to respect yourself a little bit more and not continue to settle for whatever is thrown your way. Don't feel because you've been "down" with someone from day one it's meant for you to continue the friendship or relationship some of those "ships" are the very reason you're still stranded, you fail to take notice of all the holes in it. Some people consider themselves so loyal that they don't see their so called "loyalty" is really hindering, hurting and holding them back from meaningful progress. You have to understand that those so called friends are only your friend because they see you as being in the same situation they're in or they consider you to be worse off than they are therefore it makes them feel good about themselves. You have to be able to recognize the negativity in your life and be willing to get rid of it if you ever plan on getting farther than where you are at in life, you have to understand that not everyone wants good for you. You have to recognize your own worth and stop valuing yourself based off what other have to say about you. You have to be strong enough to let people go and yet in still be patient enough to wait on the right people to enter into your life. Stop allowing old soul ties to keep you in bondage and leaving you stuck, make up your mind that you deserve happiness, tell yourself you deserve better and then seek better. Cutting people off may not seem good in the beginning but it's the end where it all matters. If we all take this mindset we will see our lives would be more stress free. Get off that sinking ship and get back to dry land!!

More people, More problems, lessen your problems by lessening the people around you.



CHELLE B.